Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Daddy's Little Girl


Girls with daddy issues are not fit for relationships. Not until they have had extensive therapy. Girls with daddy’s who neglected them and just bought them nice things and thought they were being a good male figure in their daughter’s life wind up searching for attention from men elsewhere in their lives: in the bedroom. And I’m not talking about one sexual partner. I’m talking about different men walking in and out of that room like it’s a sports bar. On 50 cent wing night. And dollar draughts. Door swinging like an olde Texas saloon.

                Obviously we cannot choose who our fathers are, so there is no disrespect meant from this, however, a father figure is very important in the life of a little girl and without one, or with an inadequate one, damage is done. A bad father, abusive father, or absentee father can cause a girl to search for compassion, affection, and attention from other men in their lives – by sleeping with them. As men, we take it upon ourselves to satisfy and/or disappoint the needs of these women by sleeping with them and using them as our sexual playthings.

                This sexual disrespect can also lead to more whorish behavior. The more disrespect these women are shown by men, the more they search for a man who will treat them with the respect that they truly deserve. However, the more they search, the more they fail, and so the cycle continues. These women are a gift from men, to men. A sickening sequence of disrespect and a seemingly endless search for gratification has the potential to result in a long 20-25 years of promiscuity wherein lies a guaranteed development of a sense of self loathing as well as the resentment of the entire male community (most of whom have been encouraging this vicious cycle).

                Conclusively, if you’ve ever had a girl sleep with you without hesitation and you did know why it was so easy – thank her father and the dozens of men who have sexually and emotionally disappointed her for the majority of her life.

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